25 RICHEST MEN EVER LIVED

The 25 Richest People In Human History (Note: Number 1 Will Shock You And It’s NOT Warren Buffet)
I know what your thinking. “The richest people in history? Warren Buffet. Bill Gates. Or wait, no. Rockefeller! Carnegie!” And for the record, you’d be way off. At least with the first two. Surprisingly, Buffet and Gates are rather low on the list. Rockefeller and Carnegie aren’t though. But who’s number 1? Well, that answer might surprise some. Like most magnates and titans, let’s start at the bottom and work our way up.

25. WARREN BUFFET: $64 BILLION
Warren Buffet is widely considered the greatest and most successful investor in history. And rightfully so. The man has managed to amass a $64 billion dollar fortune! While still in high school, he made his first big purchase: a pinball machine. Soon, they owned several machines and as they say, the rest is history.

24. SAM WALTON: $65 BILLION
Ah, the Waltons. In 1992, Sam Walton had a net worth of $66 billion, just a billion over Buffet. Ten years after his death that ballooned to over $100 billion. Staggering. But still not much compared to the others on this list..

23. MARSHALL FIELD: $66 BILLION
Mr Field was a real estate mogul and co-founder of a Chicago based department store chain. Adjusted for inflation, he would both worth about $66 billion big ones. A little known fact: he co-founded The University of Chicago with John D. Rockefeller.

22. STEPHEN VAN RENSSELAER: $68 BILLION (TIED)
You may have never heard of Stephen Van Rensselaer before, but once you know what he had his wealth might make sense to you. He owned much of New York State, including Manhattan. He was also a politician (Lieutenant Governor) who was loved by the people for offering fair land leases and rates for farmers.

22. CARLOS SLIM: $68 BILLION (TIED)
Carlos Slim is the richest living person today with a net worth of over $68 billion. He is the chairman and chief executive officer of the largest telecommunications company in Latin America. This accounts for well over half of his wealth.

21. JAY GOULD: $71 BILLION
Jay Gould’s amassed a $71 billion fortune before he’s definitely 1800s. He was known as the “Robber Barron” who was said to have used questionable business practices to amass his wealth. He would pay workers poorly, buy out competitors who couldn’t keep up and then hike the market price up, pocketing the difference.

It’s even said that when gold began to rise, he hoped the cost of wheat would as well, which would then increase the amount of freight and transport required – fattening his pockets further. So he purchased huge sums of gold in an attempt to raise the price – and it worked.

20. FRIEDRICH WEYERHAUSER: $80 BILLION
Friedrich was a land owner who made his fortune in the timber and wood business. But he wasn’t just any land owner. More like the largest private land owner in America. When he died in the early 1900’s his estate was valued at $80 billion dollars when adjusted for inflation.

19. HENRY DUKE OF LANCASTER: $85.1 BILLION
Henry was a nobleman who lived in the 1300’s and was worth about $85 billion in modern money. His story to wealth isn’t too inspiring: an inheritance and a lucky marriage made him the wealthiest man in England.

18. ALEXANDER TURNEY STEWART: $90 BILLION
Alexander was responsible for creating the world’s largest department store chain and pioneered the mail-order shopping business. Using no more then $10,000 his grandfather left him when he passed, he took that money and opened up dry-foods store in New York. By the late 1800’s he had built the largest retail shop in the world right on Broadway.

Soon, it began to branch out into other parts of the world. The first floor of the store involved fashion shows while the second floor had fine european imports. People from all parts of the country wanted to buy from his stores, and he was the first person to start mail-ordering.

17. STEPHEN GIRARD: $105 BILLION
Stephen was a banking and shipping magnate who saved America from financial collapse during the War of 1812. Wow. He purchased stock in failing banks and opened his own with great success. When he died in 1831 he was worth $105 billion.

16. JOHN OF GAUNT: $110 BILLION
Again, like Henry the Nobleman, John’s story ain’t too inspiring. He was the son of England’s King Edward III and was given some super huge land grants when he became of age.

15. HENRY DUKE OF LANCASTER: $118.6 BILLION
Richard too, like John of Gaunt and Henry the Nobleman, was an English land owner in the 1300’s. He just so happened to own more land then them, hence the fatter pockets.

14. JOHN JACOB ASTOR: $121 BILLION
Now here’s a true hustler: John would buy furs from Canada on the cheap and flip them to wealthy women in New York. Then he used this money to acquire real estate in the same area he sold furs in. Then he sold his American Fur Company and began to really buy up land.

He predicted rapid growth on the north side of Manhattan, so he purchased as much as he could. But instead of selling it, he rented it out at exorbitant rates. Cheers to you John. Cheers.

13. WILLIAM DE WARENNE: $146.3 BILLION
William was a nobleman like some of the other folks on this list, except his acquisition of wealth was rewarded due to his great military service. He was critical part of the Battle of Hastings, thus, he was awarded vast land grants. When he died in 1088 he was worth a staggering $146+ billion. Christ.

12. BILL GATES: $136 BILLION
Although Gates is worth a little less than $65 billion now, during late 1999 he Microsoft stock was valued at a whopping $130+ billion. If you don’t know who Gates is, shame on you.

11. ALAN RUFUS: $178.65 BILLION
Like William De Warenne, Alan was a military man who happened to be the companion of William The Conqueror (the 7th richest person in human history). For all his help in William’s conquering, he was given 250,000 acres of land. That’s pretty.. huge.

10. CORNELIUS VANDERBILT: $185 BILLION
Ah, the great-great-great grandfather of CNN’s Anderson Cooper. Mr. Vanderbilt is the third richest American to ever live and amassed his fortune in the steamboat industry. But the steamboat industry isn’t what really catapulted him to such great heights of wealth. It was his investments in the railroad industry thereafter.

Side-note: his great-great granddaughter, Gloria Vanderbilt, is credited as one of the first early adopters of blue jeans.. and is Anderson Coopers momma! Listen to this SoundCloud interview Anderson had with Howard Stern where he details how and why he won’t receive an inheritance.

9. HENRY FORD: $199 BILLION
Henry Ford founded the legendary Ford Motor Company and is credited as developing the assembly line form of mass production. He is also credited as developing and manufacturing the first affordable car. His family still controls Ford.

8. MUAMMAR GADDAFI: $200 BILLION
This one surprised me. According to sources Muammar Gaddafi was worth $200 billion. Following his capture and death, things didn’t seem that way at first – but authorities were able to trace $70 billion in cash and assets a few months after his death. Months after still, sources like BBC and Sunday Times traced other billion dollar assets like property, fleets of private planes and ownership stakes in everything from banks to football clubs.

7. WILLIAM THE CONQUEROR: $229 BILLION
In 1066, the guy invaded and took over all of England. Nuff’ said.

6. MIR OSMAN ALI KHAN: $236 BILLION
Mr Khan used a diamond worth $95 million dollars as.. a paperweight in his office. He ruled Hyderabad until the Indian invasion and was a fan of gold and jewelry (the city was a mecca for it). His collection alone was worth over $500 million.

5. TSAR NICHOLAS II OF RUSSA: $300 BILLION
Jeez these numbers are getting huge. Tsar Nicholas II of Russia ruled the entire Russian Empire for many years (1894-1917) and he was worth $900 million then – which, when adjusted for inflation now, is closer to $300 billion. Him and his family were eventually murdered, thus, overthrown. Bummer.

4. ANDREW CARNEGIE: $310 BILLION
The steel tycoon made much of his fortune during the sale of Carnegie Steel to J.P. Morgan for $480 million, which today would be equal to $310 billion big ones. He was big one charity and gave away virtually all of his fortune to the less fortunate.

3. JOHN D. ROCKEFELLER: $340 BILLION
When Rockefeller died in 1937 he was worth over $340 billion when adjusted for inflation and is one of the richest people in human history. And that’s no surprise when you remember he was the founder of Standard Oil, which help a monopoly over the entire U.S. market for some time.

He is also credited for helping eradicate everything from hookworm to yellow fever through his immense contributions to everything from medicine to education and research.

2. THE ROTHSCHILDS: $350 BILLION
Ah, the Rothschilds. The name alone conjures up images of crests and incalculable wealth. Mayer Amschel Rothschild, born 1744, is credited as establishing major banking and finance in Europe. Soon, his finance business spread and he appointed his sons as chairs of their own respective branches. Now, the Rothschild business encompasses everything from wine and farming to mining and banking.

1. MANSA MUSA: $400 BILLION
Mansa Musa, a West African King, is the richest person in human history. He was worth an absolutely staggering $400 billion dollars at his time of death in 1311. He ruled the entire West African empire, which encompassed everywhere from Ghana to Timbuktu and everything in between. At the time, West Africa was responsible for more than half of the world’s salt and gold production: two of the most valuable commodities of the time.

CHRISTIANITY IS NOT ABOUT HITTING BIG!!!

Nathaniel Bassey...
I came across an article online with the caption, "7 secular musicians that made it big after leaving church choir"

I wasn't surprised. Because indeed the figure is much more than than that. The fact is that most of the people, the younger generation that is, in the secular music industry at the moment have their roots in church. It is worrisome no doubt but if we read the scriptures, we'll realize such things have been aforementioned.

We have discussed some of the issues we face as Christian musicians, and I remember speaking about honour a few weeks back. The need to honour and support our own. You may source that out, I'm sure it would bless you.

However, what is rather disturbing is the fact that our own people, in church, seem to envy the "success" of the secular musicians and justify their switch to the secular industry. And this speaks volumes. It shows we are yet to truly grasp what Christianity is all about. More so, what being a gospel musician, or more appropriately, a music minister like I choose to call it, entails.

Christianity is not about hitting it big oooooooo ! (Emphasis on the oooo). Neither is gospel music. It's not about using the name of Jesus to have hits, fame, cars, land, houses, endorsements, women, awards etc. it is about TAKING UP YOUR CROSS AND FOLLOWING JESUS !!! Where did this "hitting it big Christianity come from"? Yes ! We can hit it big, we serve a God of breakthroughs, and as New Testament believers we are armed with the knowledge of Christ's finished work on the cross, and know it's his will that we prosper as our souls prospers. And you may have seen from my previous posts that I'm a firm believer in the prosperity of God's people. But those are mere benefits. Christianity is about living the life of God. After dying to flesh and things of this world.
So If your sole aim and ambition is to hit it big as a gospel musician, you better SWITCH NOW ! Because I serve a God that disappoints the devices of the crafty. And You may just be frustrated.

Satan in his temptation of Jesus offered him the whole world in exchange for worship. What do you think is happening now??? The devil won't come physically with horns on his head and blood dripping from is tongue to say that? He comes in subtle ways, nicely packaged in the form of platforms and opportunities to lure many away. That's why I'm not a fan of music reality shows, because i see them as baits and hooks. Indeed that article justifies this. Many who have "hit it big" go in as Christians, a lot of them singing christian songs during the auditions and competition, and as soon as they win, switch, or are compelled to do so by the record labels or show organizers as the case may be. That's why I have declined being a judge or umpire when invited. But I know a number of you may not agree with this particular point, but it's okay. No wahala.

We have seen recent pictures of Coptic Christians from Egypt who were beheaded just because of their faith in Christ. They chose to die gruesomely in the hands of the terror group, Isis, than deny Christ, while some of us are already denying Him (or planning to deny him) just for material things, pleasures and transient riches. The same was the case with the great apostles we read about in scripture. Many of them after performing great signs, wonders and miracles suffered untold hardship and died painfully, for Christ.

We are not even talking about dying "sef" (colloquial Naija expression), and we are already denying the cross of Jesus. Honestly, if people really knew what it meant to be born again, they would seriously consider before responding to an altar call. There is a life that is beyond food, cloths and shelter. It is the life of the Spirit. And no matter what you own and have in this present world ,without Christ you are empty. Ever heard of the expression JOY UNSPEAKABLE AND FULL OF GLORY? It has nothing to do with material things. It's a joy that the HolyGhost gives. Exclusive to those in Christ Jesus. Money can't buy it.

By Gods grace I've been privileged to meet one or two secular guys, and also know and met one that switched, and switched back to the kingdom. They tell me CLEARLY, all that life is NOTHING. EMPTINESS AND VANITY. And I hear things like, " I admire you". That's because deep in their hearts they know where they ought to be. And that's why we must pray for them, and if led, reach out to them in love. ( Not by collaborating with them though, because our people now use "the reaching out" excuse to explain their musical collaborations with them) .

So friends and fellow music ministers, let's wake up and discern. You are the one living the "good life". Because the God-life is the good life. Don't wait till you loose the joy of your salvation, anointing and glory before you realize what precious thing you had. It is not worth it.

May we all find grace to stand till the very end, in Jesus' name. Amen.

God bless you.

Don Jazzy's journey to stardom.

Don Jazzy was born in Umuahia the capital of Abia state, south
east Nigeria, Don Jazzy’s first signing was D’banj who was also
the Vice-President of Mo’ Hits record label.
Don Jazzy’s first full successful and recognizable production
work was in 2004 as he helped produce D’banj’s first single
“Tongolo”. Don Jazzy went on to produce the album that
followed titled “No Long Thing” as was released in 2005.
Don Jazzy has successfully produced songs for his signees
such as Dr SID, D’Prince, Wande Coal and even other artist who
are not under his label, like Darey art, Naeto C, Sauce Kid,
Olakunle Excel et Zanga, Ikechukwu and then Tiwa Savage. He
co produced the Jay-Z and Kanye West song “Lift Off” that also
featured Beyoncé on the album “Watch The Throne” which was
released 8th of August 2011.
Forbes recently rated Don Jazzy as the 36th “Most powerful
celebrity in Africa”.
Early Days Of Don Jazzy’s life
Michael Collins Ajereh AKA Don Jazzy was born in Umuahia, but
he hails from Delta state. He and his family relocated to Lagos
state and to Ajegunle city precisely where he grew up, and he
eventually schooled and graduated from Federal Government
College Lagos. He first fell in love with act of playing the drums
and also singing at age four.
Don Jazzy……. Mama’s boy
He got introduced to bass guitar at the age of 12 as he
developed a passion for it, Jazzy studied Business Management
at Ambrose Alli University in Ekpoma, Edo state. He then moved
to the United Kingdom in the year 2000 when his uncle invited
him over to come play drums for their neighborhood Church.
To make ends meet, Don Jazzy did some odd jobs like working
at McDonalds and as “may Guard” security guard. He further
developed his musical skills having teamed up with fellow
kindred likes Solek, Kas, JJC, The 419 squad and then D’Banj.
Jazzy’s appetite for success in music made him and former
partner move down to Nigeria to begin a full time career in
music and in 2004, he partnered with D’Banj and they
established the Mo’ Hits label. It only took hi, two year to
become a prolific music producer having wrapped up the
following two albums “No Long Thing” and “Rundown/Funk You
Up”. By this time Don Jazzy had already become a household
name and had trademark song intro “It’s Don Jazzy Again”.
He got the production credits for “best selling album of that
year” in 2008 for D’banj’s “The Entertainer”, he did the same
with Wande Coal’s debut album “Mushin 2 MoHits”, an album
that has been described as one of the best albums ever
produced in Nigeria.
Don Jazzy’s Voice texture, His fashion and also social
networking
Though he is not recognized as a recording artist, he is
however, responsible for most Background Vocals in the songs
he produces for his artist and most times you’ll get a complete
verse from him. This could be heard through his beats and vocal
assists to the likes of D’Banj, Dr SID, Sauce Kid, Kween,
D’Prince, Ikechukwu and for even Jay-Z and Kanye West on the
track Lift Off that also features Beyoncé.
Don Jazzy is a constant social network user with Twitter being
his top site where he expresses himself the most. He has over
200K followers on twitter, Don Jazzy barely talk much on
interviews but he does know how to give birthday shout outs to
fans, he also gives out airtime recharge cards and iPads,
sometimes he goes as far as giving out money via Twitter. And
of cause this type of connection to his fans, has endeared him to
his fans as they send special birthday messages and also sing
him praises and also wishing him long-life.

Production discography
Albums
D'banj – ' No Long Thing' (2005)
D'banj – Rundown/Funk You Up (2006)
D'banj – The Entertainer (2008)
Mo' Hits All Stars – Curriculum Vitae (2007)
1. Anaconda 3:34
2. Booty Call 5:13
3. Close To You 3:43
4. Hey Girl 5:08
5. Igbe Mi 5:40
6. Masqurade 4:02
7. No Long Thing 3:15
8. Ololufe (Club Mix) 4:21
9. Stop The Violence 6:37
10. Why Me (Remix) 5:16
11. Jasi 2:50
Wande Coal – Mushin2Mohits (2008)
1. I Know U Like It 3:10
2. You Bad 4:05
3. Se Na Like This 4:12
4. Kiss Ur Hands 3:54
5. Confused 4:20
6. Se Ope 3:22
7. Now It's All Gone 4:24
8. Bumper 2 Bumper 3:44
9. Who Born The Maga 3:04
10. That's Wots Up 4:42
11. Bananas 3:59
12. Taboo 4:24
13. Jehovah 4:02
14. Ololufe 4:56
15. Ten Ten 3:47
16. My Grind 4:48
17. Been long you saw me
18. Private trips
19. Go low 3:50
20. The kick 3:10
21. Rotate 3:20
Dr SID Turning Point (2010)
1. When This Song Comes On
2. Over the Moon (feat. K-Switch)
3. Something About You
4. Winchi Winchi (feat. Wande Coal)
5. Pop something (feat. D'Banj )
6. Ba Mi Jo (feat. Ikechukwu, M.I & eLDee
7. Baby
8. E Je Ka Jo (feat. D'Banj )
9. Pillow
10. Something About You (Silva Stone Remix)
11. Winchi Winchi (feat. Wande Coal, Sway DaSafo & Dotstar)
MAVINS – Solar Plexus "MAVIN Records" (2012)
1. Intro by MAVINS (Michael Ajereh, Sidney Esiri)
2. I'm A MAVIN by MAVINS (Michael Ajereh, Tiwatope
Savage, Sidney Esiri, Wande Ojosipe, Charles Enebeli)
3. Oma Ga by Tiwa Savage (Michael Ajereh, Tiwatope
Savage, Sidney Esiri, Wande Ojosipe)
4. YOLO by Dr SID (Michael Ajereh, Sidney Esiri)
5. See Me Ri by Wande Coal (Michael Ajereh, Sidney Esiri,
Wande Ojisipe, Towa Ojosipe)
6. Take Banana by D'PRINCE (Michael Ajereh, Charles
Enebeli)
7. CPR by Dr SID (Michael Ajereh, Sidney Esiri)
8. Forever by Wande Coal (Michael Ajereh, Sidney Esiri,
Wande Ojosipe, Towa Ojosipe)
9. Why You Over There by D'PRINCE (Michael Ajereh, Charles
Enebeli)
10. Chocolate by Dr SID (Michael Ajereh, Sidney Esiri, Charles
Enebeli)
11. Pretty Girls by Wande Coal (Michael Ajereh, Wande
Ojosipe)
12. Amarachi by D'PRINCE (Michael Ajereh, Charles Enebeli)
13. Outro by MAVINS (Michael Ajereh, Sidney Esiri)
Singles
Mo' Hits Artists
D'Prince
1. Omoba
1. I like What I See (feat. Wande Coal )
2. Ooze (feat. D'Banj )
3. Give It To me (feat. D'Banj )
D'banj
1. Tongolo (2005)
2. Soko (2005)
3. Mobolowowon (2005)
4. Why Me (2006)
5. Run Down (2006)
6. Kimon (2008)
7. Olorun Maje (2008)
8. Gbono Feli (2008)
9. Entertainer (2008)
10. Suddenly (2008)
11. Fall in Love (2008)
12. Igwe (2008)
13. Mr Endowed (2010)
14. I do This
15. Scape Goat (2010)
16. ashanti (2010)
17. Mr Endowed (Remix) (feat. Snoop Dogg) (2010)
18. Oliver Twist (2011)
Wande Coal
1. Bumper 2 Bumper
2. You Bad
3. Kiss Your Hand
4. Who Born the Maga
5. Been Long You Saw Me (feat. Don Jazzy) (2011)
6. Go Low (2011)
Dr SID
1. Something About You (2009)
2. Winchi winchi (2009)
3. Pop Something(feat. D'Banj )
4. Over The Moon (2010)
5. Chocolate
6. Y.O.L.O
7. C.P.R
8. Afefe
9. Chocolate West African Remix (ft Ice Prince Sarkodie Elom
Adablah Lynxxx )
10. Chocolate East African Remix (ft Musik Maestro)
11. Lady Don Dada
12. Love Mine
13. Talented
14. Baby Tornado
15. Baby Tornado Remix (ft Alexandra burke)
16. Surulere (ft Don Jazzy)
Mo'Hits Allstars
1. Ten Ten
Non–Mo' Hits Artists
Darey – Escalade part 2
Darey – Stroke Me
Shank – Never Felt
Naeto C – Asewo
Ikechukwu – Like You (feat. Wande Coal)
Ikechukwu – Wind am well (feat. Don Jazzy and D'Banj )
Ikechukwu – Do (feat. D'Banj )
Ikechukwu – All on Me
Ikechukwu – Critical (feat. D'Banj
Ikechukwu – Now is the time (feat. Don Jazzy)
Sauce Kid – Under G
Kanye West & Jay-Z – Lift Off (feat. Beyoncé)
Weird MC – Ijoya
Awards
Nigerian Music Awards (NMA) 2006 Producer of the Year
Nigerian Entertainment Awards 2007 Music Producer of the
Year
The HEADIES (2011) – PRODUCER OF THE YEAR [5]
The HEADIES (2014) – PRODUCER OF THE YEAR [6]
References
1. ^ Federal Government College Lagos , Federal Government
College Lagos.
2. ^ Ambrose Alli University , Ambrose Alli University.
3. ^ "Hip Hop World Magazine interview" .
4. ^ View Nigeria (21 September 2014). "The Mavins – Arise
Ft. Don Jazzy, Reekado Banks & Di’Ja"
. View Nigeria. Retrieved 21 September 2014.
5. ^ "The Headies" .
6. ^ http://hiphopworldmagazine.com/full-list-of-the-
headies-2014-winners/

MEET THE OLDEST PRIMARY SCHOOL PUPIL

Amazing: meet the oldest primary school pupil in the world.......Hmmmn

"It is good for a man to bear his cross when he is young"
This woman is said to be the oldest primary school pupil in the world.
The 90 year old kenyan woman  has enrolled for primary school education with the aim of being able to read and write so  she would be able to read her bible.

Priscilla Sitienei is a local midwife in Kenya,she is determined to even participate in all activities in the school e.g P.E,dance class.

Her head teacher confessed that she is possibly the oldest pupil in the world.

The 90 year old priscilla is determined to achieve her goals no matter what....


What are your excuses?

 If this old woman did what she did for what she believes,then what say you?

THE LEGENDARY MOHAMMAD ALI- How he fought through the deadly Parkinson's disease to defeat the world outside

Muhammad Ali was born Cassius Marcellus Clay Jr. He became a professional boxer after winning an Olympic gold medal in 1960. In 1964 he defeated Sonny Liston earning the world heavyweight championship. He twice defended his title, defeating both Liston and Floyd Patterson.

Ali was stripped of his title in 1967 for his resistance of the draft on religious ground. In 1970 he was re-granted a license to box and in 1971 the Supreme Court upheld his draft appeal. In the same year, he lost a fight to Joe Frazier, his first fight of his comeback.

He regained the championship in 1974, at the age of 32 after defeating George Foreman in Zaire.

Considered the greatest boxer of all time, Ali retired in 1980. although a victim of Parkinson’s disease, he is today the inspiration to millions of disabled people.

In 1999, he was crowned "Sportsman of the Century" by Sports Illustrated, and is considered by many to be one of the greatest athletes of the 20th century.

God got me here for something. I can feel it. I was born for everything that I am doing now.

I am the greatest; I said that even before I knew I was.

Float like a butterfly, sting like a bee!

Muhammad Ali

THE TRUTH ABOUT MUNA OBIEKWE'S DEATH

Nollywood actress and President of Actors Guild of Nigeria,
Ibinabo Fiberesima has lashed out at all those who blamed the
AGN for abandoning late actor, Muna Obiekwe to his fate.
Speaking during the candlelight service held in honour of the
actor in Lagos, she revealed that she was shocked at reports
going round that the AGN dumped Muna.
Ibinabo
Hear her: “Think first before you write. The man was married, he
had a wife and children. When you go about writing rubbish
about the dead, it will haunt you. If you don’t know the truth
about something, don’t spread it. It’s even worse if you are an
AGN member. Everyone is sad because of his death. If I had
known, being the kind of person I am, I would die to save Muna.
I didn’t know, most of us never knew and Muna begged the few
people who knew not to tell anyone. He had his reasons and let
us respect it. Let’s stop writing rubbish – He drank alcohol,
does that make you better than him? Let us respect Muna, he’s
no longer with us. Mind your business”
Speaking further she accused some members of AGN of double
standards, saying this lot were never the committed ones. “All
those throwing daggers at AGN, dumping Muna and not taking
care of him. How many of you are registered and validated AGN
members. But when something goes wrong, you’ll remember
AGN. This AGN is a guild, not a hospital. We are worried about
your welfare, but if you’re not registered with us, we cannot help
you. We have helped people we don’t even know because they
came to us. If you need help, let us know” she says
Continuing she said, “There’s also a publication going round
about another ailing actor, Prince James Uche. My heart is
broken because we have gone the length to help him, so I’m
shocked to hear that we have abandoned yet another actor. We
don’t abandon actors. We have paid his rent for three years
now, we have paid his hospital bills and put him on a health
plan. We have taken him to the best hospitals for medical tests.
I’m really shocked at the stories fllying around. If you don’t
know the truth about something, you ask. I know the kind of
heart God has given me and I have God’s grace upon me. So no
matter what you do to destroy me, I can’t be destroyed. I love
Muna and if I could help him, I would if I had known about his
ailment. But God knows why this has happened” May his gentle soul rest in perfect peace. Amen!

HIS BACKGROUND NEVER KEPT HIM ON THE GROUND.

Good morning family, today I want to take a break from the usual motivational life stories of international or western stars to Celebrate a living legend.

He is Pastor Barr. Simon O. Oweazim.
A a pastor, a practising Barrister, a one time lecturer at the university of Abuja, a public speaker,an Author of books, gifted in the married and singles ministry, a dedicated father of three wonderful kids, loving husband, a true mentor and a whole lot of good things time might not permit me to list now.

What you don't know about my mentor is that he was born on January 30, 1970 to a humble family somewhere in Onisha Olona, Delta State. He had the same primary and secondary education every other normal village child had, his stay in the village was not just for western education but also for matrimonial issues. He became a pro in settling matrimonial disputes at a very early age because it was almost part of the daily routine of his parents. And the experience gave birth to one of his books, Conflict in Marriage... Taming the ugly monster.

He left the village after his secondary education and moved to Benin City with hopes that he could get a higher education. He picked up some part time jobs to keep him busy while he was awaiting admission. He learnt his first lesson that life isn't a bed of roses after he missed out of his first admission despite having done wonderfully well in both his GCE and Jamb and his uncle's connection.

One of his greatest challenge growing up was fear, fear of failure majorly because of his background but his major breakthrough came in when he realised that his background was not a reason for his back to be on the ground and from that moment he decided to settle for nothing but the best.

A year past and he enrolled for another Jamb and this time he chose Law against the previous Business Admin despite the advice from friends and family that Law was a difficult course to study and expensive too. He studied hard for his exams and ofcus was crowned with success when he gained admission to Ambrose Ali University, Ekpoma.

He was popular in school because of his athleticism and his funny and friendly nature "Owemz" (Oweasim for short) as he was fondly called. Graduated amongst the best in his department and went to Lagos for his Law school.

Despite all this achiements he was still not satisfied within as he always felt an emptiness inside. These filling became worse when those fear of his early years came back, "The fear of not succeeding ". Because he was struggling to understand his cases.  It went on for a while until one day he made a life changing deal with his life.

That faithful day he entered one of the branches of RCCG in Lagos and he felt the deepest conviction that the hour had come and he went on his kneel and made the deal in this simple words, "Lord, if you will make me come out among the best in Law school, I will forever serve you". He gave his life to God and his desire to know the Lord more grew and God being a faithful God granted him his request. His name was published in the national newspapers as one of the best that year.

He was later posted to Abuja for his youth service and he secured employment in one of the best Law firms in Abuja. Somehow he started filling lonely and the need to settle down but how could this be when he was living in a single room then and his salary could not provide for his immediate needs.

Despite the odds he launched out for the ultimate search for his missing rib and destiny lead him to his old time friend, Miss Bridget. A graduate of fine and creative Arts. (Mummy B)
He lost his job as preparation for his wedding was in top gear but God being a faithful God made it come to pass.
Here he was with a new wife in a single room and no job,as resilient as he was he never gave up but this time decided to start off on his own and with the help of his old time friend they decided to start up Inedia,Oweazim and Co chambers.
Today he is an employer of labour and owner of several landed properties and he owes this success to God almighty and to God be the glory he is a year older today. Happy birthday to a rare gem,
PASTOR BARR. SIMON O. OWEAZIM.

FROM THE STREETS TO STARDOM STOrY OF TYLER PERRY

Tyler Perry’s inspirational journey from the hard streets of New Orleans to the heights of Hollywood’s A-list is the stuff of American legend. Born into poverty and raised in a household scarred by abuse, Tyler fought from a young age to find the strength, faith and perseverance that would later form the foundations of his much-acclaimed plays, films, books and shows.

It was a simple piece of advice from Oprah Winfrey that set Tyler’s career in motion. Encouraged to keep a diary of his daily thoughts and experiences, he began writing a series of soul-searching letters to himself. The letters, full of pain and in time, forgiveness, became a healing catharsis. His writing inspired a musical, I Know I’ve Been Changed, and in 1992, Tyler gathered his life’s savings and set off for Atlanta in hopes of staging it for sold out crowds. He spent all the money but the people never came, and Tyler once again came face to face with the poverty that had plagued his youth. He spent months sleeping in seedy motels and his car but his faith – in God and, in turn, himself – only got stronger. He forged a powerful relationship with the church, and kept writing. In 1998 his perseverance paid off and a promoter booked I Know I’ve Been Changed for a limited run at a local church-turned-theatre. This time, the community came out in droves, and soon the musical moved to Atlanta’s prestigious Fox Theatre. Tyler Perry never looked back.


And so began an incredible run of 13 plays in as many years, including Woman Thou Art Loosed!, a celebrated collaboration with the prominent Dallas pastor T.D. Jakes. In the year 2000, I Can Do Bad All By Myself marked the first appearance of the now-legendary Madea. The God-fearing, gun-toting, pot-smoking, loud-mouthed grandmother, Madea, was played by Perry himself. Madea was such a resounding success, she soon spawned a series of plays – Madea’s Family Reunion (2002), Madea’s Class Reunion (2003), Madea Goes To Jail (2005) – and set the stage for Tyler’s jump to the big screen.


In early 2005, Tyler’s first feature film, Diary of a Mad Black Woman, debuted at number one nationwide. His ensuing films, Madea’s Family Reunion, Daddy’s Little Girls, Why Did I Get Married?, Meet The Browns, The Family That Preys, I Can Do Bad All by Myself, Why Did I Get Married Too?, For Colored Girls, Madea’s Big Happy Family, Good Deeds and Madea’s Witness Protection have all met with massive critical and commercial success, delighting audiences across America and around the world. Perry also helped release Academy Award-nominated Precious, a movie based on the novel Push by Sapphire, in conjunction with his 34th Street Films banner, Oprah Winfrey’s Harpo Films and Lionsgate.


2006 saw the publication of Tyler’s first book, Don’t Make A Black Woman Take Off Her Earrings: Madea’s Uninhibited Commentaries On Life And Love, which shot to the top of the New York Times nonfiction bestseller list and remained there for eight weeks. It went on to claim Quill Book Awards for both “Humor” and “Book of the Year” (an unheard-of feat for a first-time author), and spread Tyler Perry’s unique brand of inspirational entertainment to a devoted new audience.



It is a brand that quickly became an empire. In 2007, Tyler expanded his reach to television with the TBS series House of Payne, the highest-rated first-run syndicated cable show of all time, which went into syndication after only a year. His follow up effort, Meet the Browns, was the second highest debut ever on cable – after House of Payne. In late 2012, Perry teamed up with Oprah Winfrey in an exclusive deal to bring scripted programming to her cable network, OWN. The hour-long drama, The Haves and The Have Nots and the half hour sitcom, Love Thy Neighbor, will debut on the network in May 2013.




Not one to rest on success, Tyler Perry and his 350 Atlanta-based employees have been hard at work. His latest film, Temptation: Confessions of a Marriage Counselor was released in March 2013 and will be followed by a production from his 34th Street Films banner, Peeples. Tyler was most recently seen in the title role in the Rob Cohen-directed Alex Cross, and will next be seen in A Madea Christmas, adapted from his stage play by the same name, in late 2013. In 2014, he will star in Single Moms Club, which he also wrote and directed.

In the fall of 2008, Perry opened his 200,000 square foot Studio in Atlanta, situated on the former Delta Airlines campus of more than 30 acres. The Studio consists of five sound stages, a post-production facility, a pond, a back lot, a 400-seat theater, a private screening room, and designated areas for entertaining and hosting events.


But listen to Tyler Perry and you’ll hear a man who hasn’t forgotten about the people that have helped him reach the top of a mountain he could once only dream of climbing. He has been intimately involved in civil rights cases, including the trial of the Jena 6 in his home state of Louisiana. He has donated generously to charities that focus on helping the homeless, such as Feeding America, Covenant House, Hosea Feed the Hungry, Project Adventure, and Perry Place – a 20-home community that Tyler built for survivors of Hurricane Katrina in New Orleans. In July 2009, Tyler sponsored a trip to Walt Disney World for 65 children after learning that a suburban swim club had turned them away because of the color of their skin. Tyler Perry has also built two churches and has donated generously to the NAACP.



In January 2010, Perry pledged $1,000,000 via The Tyler Perry Foundation to help rebuild the lives of those affected by the recent earthquakes in Haiti.



Tyler Perry practices what he preaches, and what he preaches has endeared him to millions of fans drawn by that unique blend of spiritual hope and down-home humor that continues to shape his inspiring life story and extraordinary body of work.

Awards

2013

Awarded 2 NAACP Image Awards

House of Payne
Cassi Davis – Outstanding Actress in a Comedy Series
Lance Gross – Outstanding Supporting Actor in a Comedy Series
Received 5 NAACP Image Award Nominations

Alex Cross
Tyler Perry – Outstanding Actor in a Motion Picture
Good Deeds
Outstanding Motion Picture
Phylicia Rashad – Outstanding Supporting Actress in a Motion Picture
House of Payne
Cassi Davis – Outstanding Actress in a Comedy Series
Lance Gross – Outstanding Supporting Actor in a Comedy Series
2012

Awarded 2 NAACP Image Awards

House of Payne
Outstanding Comedy Series
Keshia Knight Pulliam – Outstanding Supporting Actress in a Comedy Series
2011

Received “Best Movie” BET Award for For Colored Girls.

Awarded CinemaCon’s inaugural “Visionary Award.”

Awarded 5 NAACP Image Awards

For Colored Girls
Outstanding Motion Picture
Tyler Perry – Outstanding Director
Kimberly Elise – Outstanding Supporting Actress
Meet the Browns
David Mann – Outstanding Actor in a Comedy Series
House of Payne
Outstanding Comedy Series
Received 19 NAACP Image Award Nominations

For Colored Girls
Outstanding Motion Picture
Tyler Perry – Outstanding Directing in a Motion Picture
Michael Ealy – Outstanding Supporting Actor in a Motion Picture
Anika Noni Rose – Outstanding Supporting Actress in a Motion Picture
Kimberly Elise – Outstanding Supporting Actress
Phylicia Rashad – Outstanding Supporting Actress in a Motion Picture
Whoopi Goldberg – Outstanding Supporting Actress in a Motion Picture
Why Did I Get Married Too?
Outstanding Motion Picture
Tyler Perry – Outstanding Writing in a Motion Picture
Janet Jackson – Outstanding Actress in a Motion Picture
Jill Scott – Outstanding Supporting Actress in a Motion Picture
House of Payne
Outstanding Comedy Series
LaVan Davis – Outstanding Actor in a Comedy Series
Cassi Davis – Outstanding Actress in a Comedy Series
Lance Gross – Outstanding Supporting Actor in a Comedy Series
Keshia Knight Pulliam – Outstanding Supporting Actress in a Comedy Series
Meet the Browns
David Mann – Outstanding Actor in a Comedy Series
Lamman Rucker – Outstanding Supporting Actor in a Comedy Series
Myra J – Outstanding Writing in a Comedy Series
2010

Awarded the NAACP Chairman’s Award selected by NAACP Board Chairman Julian Bond.

Received NAACP Image Award nomination for Outstanding Writing in a Motion Picture for Tyler Perry’s I Can Do Bad All by Myself (2009).

Received NAACP Image Award for “Outstanding Comedy Series” for Tyler Perry’s House of Payne.

Received Kid’s Choice Blimp Award nomination for Favorite Movie Actor in Tyler Perry’s Madea Goes to Jail (2009).

2009

Tyler Perry’s Madea Goes to Jail debuted at #1 in the United States.

Honored by BET for his accomplishments in his career at the 2009 Second Annual “BET Honors”.

Honored by the National Association of Television Program Executives (NATPE) with the Brandon Tartikoff Legacy Award. The Brandon Tartikoff Legacy Award was created to recognize a select group of television professionals who exhibit extraordinary passion, leadership, independence and vision in the process of creating television programming.

Received NAACP Image Awards for “Outstanding Comedy Series” for Tyler Perry’s House of Payne

Received NAACP Image Award Nomination for Outstanding Directing in a Motion Picture (Theatrical or Television) for Tyler Perry’s The Family That Preys.

2008

Received NAACP Image Award nominations in both television and film categories for Outstanding Comedy Series Tyler Perry’s House of Payne. Nominations for Outstanding Supporting Actor in a Motion Picture and Outstanding Motion Picture for Tyler Perry’s Why Did I Get Married?.

Nominated for Black Reel Award Best Screenplay for his films Meet the Browns and The Family That Preys.

Received Movieguild Award for “Most Inspirational Film” for Tyler Perry’s The Family the Preys.

2007

Tyler Perry’s Why Did I Get Married? debuted at #1 in the United States.

Two 2007 Image Award nominations for Outstanding Direction in a Feature Film and Outstanding Writing in a Feature Film (Comedy or Drama) for Madea’s Family Reunion.

Honored at BET’s Celebration of Gospel.

Nominated for a Black Reel Award for Best Screenplay for Madea’s Family Reunion.

2006

Tyler Perry’s Madea’s Family Reunion – The Movie debuted at #1 in the United States.

Black Movie Award nominations for Outstanding Achievement in Screenwriting and Outstanding Motion Picture for Madea’s Family Reunion.

MTV Movie Award nomination for Best Comedic Performance for Madea’s Family Reunion.

Recipient of the Quill Award for Best in Humor and Book of the Year for his book “Don’t Make a Black Woman Take off Her Earrings”

2005

Tyler Perry’s Diary of a Mad Black Woman – The Movie debuted at #1 in the United States.

Winner of the BET Comedy Awards for Outstanding Lead Actor in a Theatrical Film and Outstanding Writing for a Theatrical Film for Diary of a Mad Black Woman.

Winner of the Black Movie Award for Outstanding Achievement in Writing for Diary of a Mad Black Woman. Also nomination for Outstanding Motion Picture for Diary of a Mad Black Woman.

MTV Movie Award for Breakthrough Male for his performance in Diary of a Mad Black Woman.

Nominated for Black Reel Award(s) Best Breakthrough Performance and Best Screen Play for his film Diary of a Mad Black Woman.

2004

Recipient of the Black Business Professionals Entrepreneur of the Year.

2001

Helen Hayes Award for Excellence in Theater.

THE SYLVESTER STALLONE ZERO TO HERO STORY.

Not a lot of people know this, but due to complications during labor, the lower left side of Stallone’s face is paralyzed,
including parts of his tongue, lip and chin. This incident at birth is the cause of his trademark snarling look and his
slurred manner of speaking.
For the first five years of his life, Sylvester Stallone lived in an area of New York known as Hell’s Kitchen. He bounced from one foster home to another while his parents fought and squabbled endlessly in a bad marriage.
Although he was eventually reunited with them, his troubled past and his oddly paralyzed face made him an outcast among his classmates. He often received suspensions for his frequent fights, poor grades, and behavior problems.

Below Zero Status
His adult life was just as difficult. Hard times and a lack of income resulted in the actor getting evicted from his apartment. As a result he was forced to live on the streets for close to three weeks.
Eventually he came across a casting call for a soft core pornography film; out of desperation he attended the casting
call. For two days of filming the actor received $200.
According to Stallone “it was either do that movie or rob someone, because I was at the end, the very end of my rope”.
After getting back on his feet he was eventually able to attend college. However, deciding this path was not for him, he
left before graduation and moved to New York to pursue an acting career.
He tried out for nearly each and every casting call he could, and contacted as many casting agents as he could find, with no victory. After numerous failed attempts he made the decision to try his hand at writing various screenplays.
After numerous failed attempts he found himself broke once again. In an act of desperation he waited outside of a local liquor store asking people if they would buy his dog; his closest and best friend. In the end someone bought his dog
for roughly $50. Stallone was extremely devastated that his life had come to that point.
With options few and far between he began to run out of money. By now he was desperate to get a job but he still was not ready to settle on just any job. He wanted to be an actor and that was what he had his mind set on.

The Hero’s Journey to Success
One day as Stallone walked the cold streets of New York City he wandered into the local library to warm up. While he browsed through the many books he discovered some of the best classics by many famous writers which inspired him to work harder on his screenplays and various writings.
In 1975, Stallone saw the Muhammad Ali vs. Chuck Wepner fight. That night Stallone went home, and in three days he had written the script for Rocky. He tried to sell the script with the intention of playing the lead role. However,
months passed with enormous rejections from many producers, until eventually someone loved it and they agreed to do the movie.
As poor as he was, Stallone turned down the great sums of money he was offered because he insisted that he must play
the lead role in the film. Studios were not willing to cast him in this role because he was a complete unknown, and they wanted a well known star. They told him he was not an actor but a writer.
There is a story that Stallone had been offered more than a hundred thousand dollars for his script as long as someone else could take the lead role, but he refused. He was so sure in his heart that this part was meant for him, and him
alone. He refused to compromise.
Finally the studio agreed to allow Stallone to proceed with the film, provided that it was made on a shoestring budget.
Stallone accepted the deal and used part of his money to go back to the liquor store and get his dog back.
As you all probably know, Rocky became a worldwide commercial success and Oscar winner. The film was nominated for
ten Academy Awards in all, and went on to win the Academy Awards for Best Picture, Best Directing and Best Film
Editing.
The sequel, Rocky II was released a few years later and also became a major success. The film series has grossed more
than $1.25 billion at the worldwide box office.

Last Words
Sylvester Stallone achieved his success because he always believed in himself and his vision. He never gave up and kept trying and trying until he made it.
For me, Sylvester Stallone is one of the best demonstrations of how persistence can overcome all manner of obstacles with impossible odds.
Live Your Dreams!

IT CAN ONLY BE GOD.

A young man had experienced pain so much that people advised him to go for deliverance. Everywhere he turned, there seemed to be an issue. His slogan became, "it will get worse" because somehow problems he never thought about kept coming up. To crown it all, he was born again, devoted, committed and loved God wholeheartedly. This young man needed help, but the more he prayed the worse it got. He had goals to achieve but the year was almost over, and nothing seemed to happen for him.

One of the greatest lies anyone can be told is that, being born again insulates you from trouble. As a matter of fact, becoming born again attracts troubles: pressed down, shaken together and running over into your life. Sorry to burst your bubble. But one truth is, you become qualified for victory.

Everybody that God wants to use has got to come out of a situation where it's got to be proven that it's God that's doing it. And the longer you wait for something, the longer your resources are dried up. The reason is because God's purpose for His children is shrouded in time. Until your appointed time for blessing, lifting and breakthrough comes, troubles will overshadow you.

You're so banged up, buffeted and beaten now so that when you finally, get there, you'll look up to heaven and say, "it had to be God." As you start a brand new year. You're wondering did I make a mistake serving God? No sir, He makes all things beautiful in His time. Don't get it twisted. Remember Naaman? Your story is

about to hit the front cover of magazines. God' s got to take the glory. Just hang in there.

A RABBIT OR A Dog?

"The best thing to do when you find yourself in a hurting or vulnerable place is to surround yourself with the strongest, finest, most positive people you know." - Kristin Armstrong

A farmer once set a competition between his dog and his rabbit. He made a hole in one of his biggest fields, and hid a carrot and a
bone in it. He wanted to see which animal would find them first. The rabbit was very cheerful and optimistic, and he threw himself into looking for the carrot, digging everywhere, totally convinced that he would find it. The dog on the other hand, wasn't as excited.
After sniffing around for a bit, he lay down and began to complain how difficult it was to find one bone in such a big field. The rabbit dug for hours, and with every new hole the dog complained even more about how difficult this was, even for the rabbit.
Meanwhile, For the rabbit, he thought that each hole dug was one less hole to dig. When there was no place in the whole field left to
dig, the rabbit dug a tunnel to right under where the dog had been lying all that time. There he found the carrot and the bone.
As the year ends, many people lose their zeal to still pursue their dreams for many reasons. Some lose steam, either because they
achieved a lot so far while some others lose interest because they'd failed many times earlier in the year, and so they think nothing
good can happen in the last month if it didn't happen in earlier eleven months.
Beloved, the sugar in the crumb is the same sugar in the loaf. I mean, the last couple of days in 2014 is as much 2014 as the
earlier eleven months gone by. If your instincts nudge you, obey it and work as enthusiastically as you can, and be as expectant in
these last days, as you were in January. This is how the dog lost the bone he was already sitting on, due to his pessimism. Because,
thanks to his great instinct, he had already found the right place at the very beginning. Be like the rabbit this morning, dig until
you find. If you're like the dog already, just get some positive energy from the rabbit. Has God promised? He'll do it. It's not yet
over.

LIFE IS NOT THAT SERIOUS.

Life is not a serious as we make it... I bet after reading this you will agree with me.

JBoy (Japhet), my friend from junior secondary really knew how to light a place up with his never ending enthusiasm. At times you would actually think he was crazy because of he's reaction to things.
I remember once when our intro-tech test results came out in J.S.S 2, I scored a 5 out of 30
and he scored a 7 (I can't really remember the exact figures but we flunked ). He had the broadest smile on his face while I was already looking to the ceiling and calculating the strokes that I was going to receive from the teacher.
I turned and asked JBoy why he was so happy, if he wasn't afraid of the cane. He simply turned and unable to control his excitment he said to me "I beat you with 2 marks". We both busted out laughing as hard as ever. Later on when the intro-tech teacher descended on us we had our fair practice of sprinting laps around the class while holding on to our buttocks but only to come back
for another stroke followed by another lap, When the flogging was over and the tears had dried up the mumu boy started laughing at me again and imitated the way way I ran round the class. I guess he was one of the first people to actually show me to take things in life easy. I learnt how to change the things I can change in life and be ready with how to deal with the things I can.
At times we are the ones that create the illusion and fear of a life where everything is so serious and tensed up. A life where there are no mistakes allowed and every misstep is over judged. When things go wrong we should learn how to put it behind us and move on with life because dwelling on it will never be helpful. The only reason you should look back at those times
would be to reflect and laugh or recall the lessons you learnt from the experience. So grab a bottle of chilled drink and ease off a little my friends, laugh a little more and live your life to the fullest, life isn't that serious...

INTEGRITY MADE THE WAY.

Rotimi had come under tremendous pressure. He didn’t know what to do, he was confused, perplexed and if he could would want to run
away.
A hard working young man, age 31, works as procurement manager of a leading manufacturing company in Lagos. This young man
from an average background is the only child of his parents. It took his parents eight years to have him and many efforts to have
other kids after him had proved abortive. He is the only child and the most precious subject in the life of his parents.
He was born and raised in Ilorin; his father was a principal at a federal government college and his mother a primary school teacher.
They worked very hard to raise him and train him and after becoming a graduate and securing a master’s degree five years ago, he
secured this job as a buyer and was subsequently promoted to the level of a procurement manager.
The company he worked for is a very successful world class multinational with global presence.
Rotimi was in charge of procuring spare parts and lubricants for the factory; this is a multi-billion naira buying budget and he was
directly responsible; he was as it is ,in charge!
For about four years Rotimi has been under serious pressure from his parents to get married as quickly as possible. His parents were
very anxious about having grandchildren considering he’s the only child hence, they wouldn’t let him rest.
Rotimi a very serious minded man, loves his job and wouldn’t toy with it, he hopes one day to become the managing director of that
multinational hence, he’s really focused on his job and keeps shunning other distractions.
Despite the pressure from his parents; he’s never taken seriously the issue of women or that need to be married too soon. He believed
he needed time to sort out many other priorities relevant to his ambition in career and he wouldn’t settle down till he’s done.
Rotimi wouldn’t hang out with the boys after work; he resumes at work pretty early and would not leave till very late at night. He
didn’t party, didn’t club, didn’t hang out and had only one friend who is also a colleague.
About 18 months ago, Rotimi was invited by this his friend and collogue to attend a wedding of another colleague and because this
female colleague was quite nice and had invited Rotimi personally, he decided to go; attending this wedding occasion marked the
beginning of the pressure he’s facing today.
At the after party of that wedding, Rotimi was introduced to Nike, a very beautiful and attractive young lady. Nike was 25 years old,
with two master degrees from top American universities. Asides her primary education, the rest of her learning process was in the
United States.
She was very brilliant and passionate about success. A computer engineering expert, she had also acquired certifications in business
management and entrepreneurship. A dreamer and an achiever, Nike; highly intelligent, passionate and knowledgeable; would blow the
mind of anyone with ideas and could intimidate anyone who isn’t very confident or knowledgeable. Nike was very beautiful too; tall,
fair, bright eyes and her strength were in her strong and husky voice; very arresting and intimidating.
She has a good body and could make any outfit no matter how drab look pretty nice; she wore them good like that.
Rotimi and Nike were introduced and from that moment on they struck a chemistry that made them inseparable.
Within the first six months of their meeting they became extremely close and did nearly everything together. Nike worked in the IT
department of an American oil and gas company based in Lagos as a computer engineer and was doing pretty well in career too.
Rotimi, feel in love and from that point onward he began to consider marrying Nike.
After a year, the duo had become so close they did and shared everything in common. Subsequently, Nike moved out of her guardian’s
house in Lekki and moved into Rotimi’s house in Ikeja GRA. They became live in lovers. They were happy together and liked the idea of
cohabiting until Nike discovered after 12 weeks of moving in that she had taken in; she was pregnant.
Rotimi was initially shocked and taken aback but after thinking about it for a while, he began to calm down. His parents had been
waiting for him to get married and bear them grandchildren and here is one on the way; of course they’ll be happy and immediately
he told Nike they should start planning towards their marriage ceremony.
Nike was not as excited; she had kept a secret from Rotimi all the while; Her father happens to be one of the most prominent and
respected traditional rulers from the western part of the country; in fact he is so known all over the country. He is a very, very rich,
powerful and popular traditional ruler. Nike took his first name as her surname; hence Rotimi didn’t suspect anything.
For Nike, the problem is, Rotimi is not the kind of man her family would approve of as a husband, no money, no fame, no reputation
– the son of a common teacher they would say. According to her, marrying him would be perceived as a scorn or ridicule to their
royalty. Worse still, she’s pregnant.
Rotimi began to sweat; why didn’t you tell me all this? He shouted at Nike, confused, ‘ I didn’t want you to know or treat me
different, or see me in that light, it will affect the way you relate with me that’s why I kept it a secret’. She retorted.
‘You mean that powerful man is your father? I’m in trouble?’ Rotimi said, as though talking to himself.
I’m sorry Nike, you’ll have to abort this pregnancy; I don’t think I’m in any way ready for all this; this revelation is beyond what I
or my parents can handle, sorry let me go for my class, you’re way out of my class.’ Rotimi said to her.
Nike laughed out loud, in agony, with tears in her eyes! That’s impossible she told him calmly, I can’t, it’s a taboo, it’s forbidden,
I’m a princess, if I attempt it, I’ll die. We are not permitted to abort as royals. I dare not take the life of even an unborn royal
blood.
Rotimi got off the bed and sat on the bare floor of his bedroom away from Nike; he looked at the roof and looked at the floor. Nike
you have killed me; my life is over.
This happened a month earlier, Rotimi afterwards trying hard to face his reality. Nike is pregnant, she’s royal, she’s rich, he
impregnated, her, he’s common blood, he’s poor – no name, no reputation, no power, no influence.
When he travelled two weeks ago to inform his parents of all that’s happened, his mother began to weep immediately, when we asked
you to bring home a wife, we didn’t ask you to bring home this much trouble with it. She retorted, breaking down. His father now
retired as a principal was quiet; he said nothing, but his heart was pounding and he was visibly shaken.
‘So what do we do? I don’t even have a house of my own, I have no car. How do we match this family? How do we avert shame and
disgrace? This is beyond what I can handle Rotimi, its way beyond my power.’ His father lamented.
Rotimi was jolted out of his thoughts and worry, when a tall, heavily built man entered his office and bellowed a ‘hi son, how is work
going’ in Yoruba language.
Rotimi stood up immediately, Prince Adedapo is one of the oldest suppliers of spare parts to their company, he is a personal friend to
both the managing director and the finance director, he was well known in the business and everyone treated him with respect and high
regard.
Prince Adedapo sat opposite Rotimi and began to speak. Young man, I believe you didn’t forget the discussion we had last week. You
must favour me this year o, I’m bringing in a lot of parts and I’d expect you’ll purchase from me. My business isn’t doing very well
now; most of the companies I supply have shut down and left the country, only very few of you are left, please support me on this.
Sir, you need not appeal to me on this, I will do my best sir. I promise. Rotimi responded.
Prince Adedapo looked at Rotimi, look son, he said in low tones, I can make you very rich, you’ll make millions on this seat if you can
collaborate with me; you’re not a small boy you know exactly what I’m talking about and you know what to do.
Sir, Rotimi began to speak standing up, you’ve made this kind of offer in time past several times and I’ve made it very clear I’m not
that kind of person. I’m honest and I have integrity, I wouldn’t take a bribe and would not compromise. I’m sorry sir, I’ll do my best
but I’m not interested in your offer, I’d rather lose this job than compromise on my principles and integrity. Good day sir.
Prince Adedapo looked at him, smiled got up and left his office.
One week later, Rotimi, his parents and a few relatives approached a very big and beautiful palace somewhere in the western part of
Nigeria for the initial introduction before the engagement and wedding ceremony.
They were all, tensed, afraid and confused as they approached the palace. Immediately they entered the palace premises, they were met
by an intimidating number of very high profile traditional individuals; haughty in looks and snobbish in attitude.
‘Come in Kabiyesi has been expecting you,’ one of the women said without any initial greetings. They all walked towards the king’s
visitors chamber to meet with him, Rotimi’s father’s elder brother led, followed by Rotimi’s parents then him.
They entered the visitor’s court and all prostrated and knelt down to courtesy the king.
Kabiyesi didn’t respond, he was indifferent, the oloris did respond and some palace chiefs though, this attitude really made Rotimi and
his family feel little and unhappy.
Just then from the inner chamber of the King, a tall and huge man came out; looked at the visitors, paused suddenly and looked
again, ‘Rotimi’, he bellowed! ‘It is you? You impregnated my niece’, it was Prince Adedapo, the spare parts supplier for his company,
‘prince, good afternoon sir!’ Rotimi greeted stammering. ‘Rotimi, you impregnated my niece, Kabiyesi is my elder brother’ Prince
Adedapo announced to him.
Suddenly Prince Adedapo began to laugh, he turned to Kabiyesi and said, ‘ your highness, we are lucky, I know Rotimi more than
anyone else here, he is a very responsible gentleman, honest, decent with integrity, he’s the kind of man Nike should marry, I assure
you your highness, this is a blessing! His royal highness for the first time looked at Rotimi, and called his name, ‘sir?’ Rotimi
responded, prostrating flat on the floor, ‘My brother says you’re a good boy, I trust his judgment, welcome home, you can all have your
seats’, kabiyesi concluded and began to smile, at that point Nike came out of the inner chamber followed by her own mother and she
ran towards Rotimi, everyone busted out laughing.
Ladies and gentlemen, Rotimi was under pressure to live up to certain standards and expectations to impress his, would be in laws but
his determination didn’t become desperation; he made the right decisions even when it was really difficult and at the end of the day, it
served him right.
Becoming successful and a great achiever require being principled and committed to doing the right thing even if it’s tough.
Every compromise in life has been greeted with frustration and regret.
Resolve in your mind not to bow to any pressure you face in life today. Stand for honesty and integrity and you’ll experience the
ultimate uplift though life.
Ladies and gentlemen, think it, do it, achieve it and be the ultimate, it’s all in your mind!!!

I WAS ONCE MOLESTED BY A PRIEST. Lola Omotayo Okoye

Lola Omotayo recently revealed at the Kinabuti Dare2Dream
Project in Lagos a secret part of her life to help out young girls
at the project.
Lola revealed that when she was in her secondary school days,
she was molested by a priest and she could not tell anyone in
her family.
Lola Omotayo
She said that the situation repeated itself in a former
relationship before finally meeting Peter of P-Square and then
getting married.
Excerpts of her speech below…
“You shouldn’t let your past determine what your destiny will be, we
all have our past whether good or bad or makes us unhappy, we all
had a life that we lived that we are not happy about, you shouldn’t
let it bother you from succeeding.
When I was a young girl in my early teens in high school, I was
molested by a catholic priest, i blamed myself, i didn’t tell anyone
because i was ashamed, couldn’t tell anyone cos i felt everyone
would blame me, so i carried on the guilt and bitterness with me for
years. I was filled with hate and i became a angry person, i was
rebellious, i didn’t want to listen to anybody…and because i wanted
to be expelled from school to avoid seeing this person, i would do so
many terrible things, everything around me was just so negative, i
felt i wasn’t good enough….
Anyway i moved on to the university, met the love of my life and i’m
like, okay this guy is cool, he loves me…and then he started to abuse
me….i was beaten black and blue all the time, in front of friends, in
public and at a point i felt, you know what I am not worthy enough,
there is nothing about me that is nice, nobody loves me but i hid
this from my family….i felt like a loser..so it was hard for me to
focus..so one day i woke up and said i am going to change my story
and i dumped that person, focus on my education and decided to be
serious and be something….i decided to get a job and go to school
full time in America…
I worked hard…my parents were sending me money cos I didn’t tell
them i was working but i was working because i wanted to be
independent…I didn’t want to depend on any man or on my parents
even though they would have done anything for me…so i did all sorts
of job, i was a make up artiste, i worked in a cafe, school library, i
did so many things and i didn’t realise that these jobs were building
me up as a person, building my resume, my confidence….people
began to like me because i was adding value to their lives….at work i
was excellent and so was i in school and that built me as a strong
woman…and at some point, i sought counseling to get over my
molestation issues where i was made to see reasons why i wasn’t at
fault cos i was a child then…today I am accomplished.
You can be whatever woman you want to be but you have to believe
in yourself, if they reject you today, it doesn’t mean you should let
your dreams die, you have something unique about you.
Look at my husband, when i met him peeps were like what are you
doing with him, he has nothing but i stood my ground and choose to
stick with him cos he had a dream. He and his twin brother did not
let their dream die, they worked hard..look at them today! I stuck by
him cos he had focus and drive and today i am happy, i have a good
life, we are happy and we have got a beautiful family. No one can
make you a loser.”
Lola is married to Peter Okoye of the P-square fame, they have
two kids together.

THE MOMENT YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR. part 2

So later that evening just when you had managed to get your mind off things, a text comes into your phone. And as you read it you keep flashing back to what happened in the job you had quit.

    Dear sir, We are happy to inform you that we have finished reviewing your result. However...*Heart rate goes up and flashes of you standing outside your old office and waiting to be late on purpose*.....We regret to inform you that....*flashes of the back of your managers head*.....we cannot have you .....*flashes of the sack letter*.....In our company....*Flashes of the dirty slap you gave your manager*....We do not see you fit for the position you applied for....*intense headache and running stomach*....Thank you for applying and have a wonderful day ......*Big flash of your village people congratulating your manger on a job well done*. This last image is going to linger for a while so be prepared.


So right now you are jobless, well not the real you of cos, the you in the story is the jobless one now. You have no way of going back to your old job and you have evidently failed at this new job opportunity. What hurts most is actually that you have waited for this job for a long time and you ended up screwing it up. So you head back to your house and pour yourself a glass of wine and drift away in thoughts. You keep wondering what went wrong, why you couldn't answer well. It's not like you panicked, but something had gone wrong definitely. Was it the village people and your manager you wonder to yourself as that image still lingers in your head. Well as you battle with that in your head, let me tell you something.

But first of all let me ask you a question, where you really prepared for the test? Look back at this story and understand something. This man was hopeful yes, he had faith and all. But along the line of waiting for so long, even though he hoped for the job, he stopped preparing himself for the opportunity. He stopped studying and trying to improve himself in the field that he really wanted, he left the knife that is his skill to dull. It's like an artist that gets a job at a bank then one day he or she is called for a competition. The winners work would be displayed in the national museum and the person would be placed on a monthly salary for years to come. The artist has a few days to draw and starts up only to discover that he or she wasn't good enough on the day of presentation because of lack of constant practice.

So I say this to you now, no matter where you are. Whether you are sitting at an annoying job and cursing out for having to work at your sorry excuse of a job when you know your true potential. Or wasting away at home with no job at all when you know that someone who doesn't deserve it is holding a position you would fill up and handle efficiently at a company you have dreamed your entire life of. If you aren't steadily preparing for an opportunity when it knocks, you would lose it when it comes.

Always polish up on your skills and wait for when you would need them. Do not let yourself get rusty. Your faith and hope at an opportunity in life shouldn't stop at just watching and waiting, preparation is very much required. So if you are waiting for something right now, then do not be the you in this story I have been telling. Practice as often as you can, do not procrastinate. Learn to stay in love with your passion and keep greasing up your parts for the day the automobile that is you, is selected for a test run. Some opportunities knock only once and it could be the opportunity of a lifetime. Do not let that ONE opportunity pass you by because you weren't ready. Start preparing now and always stay prepared.

.....So now you realize that even though your village people had a hand in this, you also contributed a great deal. But do not worry, all hope isn't lost. This should only come as a lesson to you. Now that you have learnt it, I think you should drop you cup of wine. Get up and start preparing today for something new and possibly even bigger, some opportunities might knock more than once and other times your screw up today only happened so you would learn a lesson and prepare for something bigger tomorrow. Stay hopeful my friends, tomorrow is another day

The moment you've been waiting for.

So family, yeah you reading this right now, you are family so don't look over your shoulder searching for who I am talking about. You have been abducted and you are part of us now. I am talking about both you and the person behind you, yes so you at the back stop looking at me like that. You are family also. Anyway grab a snack and listen to this.
     Picture this scenario, you are done with school and you always had a dream job in your head. You want to work with shell, Google, Julius Berger or any other big company out there. So you put in your application and you stay waiting for them to approve it. Time passes by and you wonder why they haven't gotten back to you. You get depressed after long months or years of waiting and now you just have to settle for something because you can't go hungry of cos. A job opportunity in a small firm is open and you apply.
Fortunately or unfortunately for you depending on how you look at it, you become among the few selected to work at this little firm that overworks and underpays their staff. But you have no choice and you just have to wait it out and hope that one day your letter is answered. Now that is called having hope and you have the hope aspect of your life checked out of your list right? Alright cool. At this your new job frustration is setting in because of the way things are going and you just know that you are over qualified for this job and yet underpaid and as if that isn't enough, your boss gives you the worst attitude you could ever think of. But you know you do not have a choice and you just have to remain at this job,at least until you get that job you are still waiting for, while taking all the insults from this your boss. Now that is called being patient, and so with that we can say that apart from you cursing out in the bathroom each time you go to use the convenience, you have your patience in check right? Okay moving on...

One day on a Monday morning you are grumpily headed to work with your dusty suit that you do not bother to take care of anymore and murmuring to yourself how horrible the day would most likely be at work. When you receive a call. An unknown caller I.D, you don't usually pick unknown numbers but what the slam, why not just pick this one. So you hit the answer button and a voice comes through the ear piece.

  "Hello is this Mr Bleh, This is Mr bleh bleh, the manager of employments at Berger. We have reviewed your application and we are happy to tell you that sumtin sumtin sumtin, blah blah sumtin blah interview date on the bleh of bleh two thousand and bleh, your bleh blah blah blah. Thank you and hope to see you there"

I'm sure you all get the gist. So an interview date has been set for the next day! Your head is spinning from joy and you just can't contain yourself so you get to work and you do your job exceptionally well that day and no matter the attitude your boss gives you, you just keep smiling at him and you leave him wondering what is up with you today. Or maybe if you choose, you get to your office on time and stand outside whistling just to make sure you are late on purpose, your manager wants to shout because of this and you slap his mouth to the back of his face before he can complete the first word. He calls you to the office and wants to hand you a sack letter and you give him another resounding palm to cheek caress then drop your resignation letter. Bad Guy!!! Ok na let's keep going.

So the next day is here and it's time for the interview and you step into the hall for it. But then something odd is happening, this funny feeling in your stomach won't go away. You are asked the first question, a simple question but you can't provide any answer. The man on suit moves on and asks you a different answer and yet you fumble, a third question comes your way and you decide to answer this one and give the wrongest answer ever heard. You are asked to identify a machine that you clearly know but you just can't remember the name. What is happening to you? Is it the years of being out of practice? Or did your manager connive with your village people under these few hours to bring you down. Either way this interview is not going good at all.

Let's continue this later.(wink wink)